Comments on: Letting the naughty in

By: Trista

Trista — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 05:12:40 +0000

If she wasn’t married I would ask for your number. For her, in case that wasn’t clear…

By: Matty

Matty — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 03:36:28 +0000

I have a ten inch tongue and can breathe through my ears. I might be able to help

By: Trista

Trista — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 03:21:51 +0000

I love that you took matters into your own hands (pun intended) and figured it all out for yourself. You, and many other women out there, are proof that it is never too late. And yes…we are worth it. =)

Thanks for dropping by, Suzy.

By: Trista

Trista — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 03:19:40 +0000

Conditioned response at work!

By: Trista

Trista — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 03:18:50 +0000

I think it takes time to work out those new lover kinks. But I also think that the process moves along more quickly when you use words to express your likes and dislikes. If it isn’t comfortable during the actual act for you, you can always try and have the talk later, with your clothes on. Getting comfortable with the idea of talking about sexual needs is an important step in sexual satisfaction.

By: Suzy

Suzy — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 02:31:25 +0000

I was nearly 30 years old before I learned how to climax. Like the woman mentioned, I had no trouble with arousal, but I knew relatively nothing about masturbation. When I was separated from my now ex-husband, I decided I was going to change my life in every positive way possible, so I bought books about orgasm (”For Yourself”) and sexual fantasy (”My Secret Garden”) and a vibrator. It took some time and effort (::snickers::) but eventually it paid off. I hope the woman in the story will not give up on herself — she’s WORTH IT!

By: Missygail

Missygail — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 02:07:04 +0000

I do all of those things. I orgasm, I masturbate… etc. But I have a hard time with a new lover… I find it hard to tell him how I want it. I don’t want to sound like the evil schoolmarm, don’t do this or that or that other thing.

I have a new lover as of July 19th. He’s an occasional lover, nothing permanent yet and circumstances will probably prevent us from being together again anytime in the near future.

Though the times we’ve been together have been a bit lacking. I’m unable to tell him point blank what I like or want. I try to use sighs and grunts, to tell him what’s allowed and what I don’t like, but he doesn’t listen.

He’s a few years younger than me, 27 to my 30 and when we are together I can feel his youth…

Then even when he gives him self over and says do what you want to me, I do, but then he takes over…

I just find it hard getting used to a new lover. I’m good with what is known.

By: Meghan

Meghan — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 00:03:12 +0000

Hahahaaa!

By: Sarahh

Sarahh — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:43:23 +0000

When you have been to the mountain top how can you NOT be judgmental??

By: Kiki

Kiki — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 20:52:26 +0000

You are SO right. My last long termer used to expect his “treat” before I would get anywhere close, and the number of times he conveniently fell asleep after he’d finished would drive me up the wall literally. So I withdrew all privileges til he mastered the art of ladies first for a change. Funnily enough he became pretty fast and effective in that department after that!