Comments on: Can I get your number? http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/ dating advice, relationships, self-help, sexuality, empowerment, men, women, love, romance Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:48:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Jime http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7838 Jime Thu, 19 Jun 2008 18:00:59 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7838 I am in agreement with you, Melody. My last ex thought the same way as your man (about the separation of sex and love) and, for me, this attitude just made the sex less significant. And have less meaning. Which, in turn made me less interested in <i>her</i>. I am in agreement with you, Melody. My last ex thought the same way as your man (about the separation of sex and love) and, for me, this attitude just made the sex less significant. And have less meaning. Which, in turn made me less interested in her.

]]> By: Chris http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7723 Chris Tue, 17 Jun 2008 19:54:47 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7723 My simple answer: . "I haven't the foggiest idea. It's not like I'm <I>counting</I>." . If you insist on a ballpark guess: "More than one. Less than 1,000." My simple answer:
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“I haven’t the foggiest idea. It’s not like I’m counting.”
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If you insist on a ballpark guess: “More than one. Less than 1,000.”

]]> By: Kevin M. http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7675 Kevin M. Tue, 17 Jun 2008 14:35:12 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7675 The answer to life, the universe, and everything? 8-) The answer to life, the universe, and everything? 8-)

]]> By: Kevin M. http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7673 Kevin M. Tue, 17 Jun 2008 14:26:34 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7673 Not what we think?? Exactly how many holes DO you have?? Not what we think?? Exactly how many holes DO you have??

]]> By: Sarahh http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7665 Sarahh Tue, 17 Jun 2008 13:22:00 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7665 That is funnier than hell. Way to log me out hun. That is funnier than hell.

Way to log me out hun.

]]> By: Melody http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7662 Melody Tue, 17 Jun 2008 09:57:07 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7662 BINGO!!! Hurray for you Carol, your history sounds much like mine, only I was a few years younger when I lost it to my high school sweetheart of 3 years. When my current man askesd me my number, I asked why he wanted to know, but I divulged. I was not ashamed, nor will I ever be. I did however ask him after I gave my honest answer. He looked at one hand, then the other, then his feet, then he asked if he could borrow my hands and one of MY feet. I gotta admit, it sort of bugged me, especially since he was basically with his ex wife from kindergarten. On and off obviously. But I NEVER brought it up, nor do I think about it now. It is what it is, and as long as Im the only one, Im fine with it. BINGO!!! Hurray for you Carol, your history sounds much like mine, only I was a few years younger when I lost it to my high school sweetheart of 3 years.
When my current man askesd me my number, I asked why he wanted to know, but I divulged. I was not ashamed, nor will I ever be. I did however ask him after I gave my honest answer. He looked at one hand, then the other, then his feet, then he asked if he could borrow my hands and one of MY feet. I gotta admit, it sort of bugged me, especially since he was basically with his ex wife from kindergarten. On and off obviously. But I NEVER brought it up, nor do I think about it now. It is what it is, and as long as Im the only one, Im fine with it.

]]> By: Melody http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7661 Melody Tue, 17 Jun 2008 09:45:52 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7661 Let me clarify... I like the sex, but its never romantic or lovey. Just sex.. Can be unfufilling at times, and Im not referring to orgasm, Im referring to feelings, and the closeness that sex should bring a man and a woman. Let me clarify… I like the sex, but its never romantic or lovey. Just sex.. Can be unfufilling at times, and Im not referring to orgasm, Im referring to feelings, and the closeness that sex should bring a man and a woman.

]]> By: Melody http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7660 Melody Tue, 17 Jun 2008 09:43:09 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7660 Hmmm. Sort of like looking into a mirror and seeing my own thoughts on the subject. If Im in this relationship, I obviously am sure of my feelings, so why would I care how many partners my man has had, or he care about mine? My number is fairly low, even though I too was young the first time. But I agree, its insecure and selfish to even want to know "the magic number". It is toxic information. Besides the fact that if Im sleeping with you, Im not sleeping with anyone else. I also agree that sex and love are not mutually exclusive in a relationship. Yeah if you have a one nighter, its not love, or even friendship. But with your partner, sex and love should be intertwined. Thats one of my biggest issues with my man. Sex is just sex. Its weird and I dont particularly like it. Hmmm. Sort of like looking into a mirror and seeing my own thoughts on the subject. If Im in this relationship, I obviously am sure of my feelings, so why would I care how many partners my man has had, or he care about mine? My number is fairly low, even though I too was young the first time. But I agree, its insecure and selfish to even want to know “the magic number”. It is toxic information. Besides the fact that if Im sleeping with you, Im not sleeping with anyone else.
I also agree that sex and love are not mutually exclusive in a relationship. Yeah if you have a one nighter, its not love, or even friendship. But with your partner, sex and love should be intertwined. Thats one of my biggest issues with my man. Sex is just sex. Its weird and I dont particularly like it.

]]> By: Vic http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7655 Vic Tue, 17 Jun 2008 02:09:03 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7655 *coughcoughwhorecoughwheeze* *coughcoughwhorecoughwheeze*

]]> By: Vic http://eve-101.com/can-i-get-your-number/comment-page-1/#comment-7654 Vic Tue, 17 Jun 2008 01:16:59 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=494#comment-7654 That's because you're not fucking cool. That’s because you’re not fucking cool.

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