Darling, won’t you go and cut your…foreskin?

Hey! So if she does talk him into it, my lips are getting a little flat and I’d be more than happy to take that extra skin off his hands…errrr…penis.

No! It’s never okay and hell no you definitely weren’t too hard on girlfriend. She needs to get over herself. Sheesh!

Yeah…I would not take kindly to a man suggesting I go and hack up my vagina to fit some image he has stuck in his head. I would say bye bye right then and there.

Especially if they’ve only been intimate for 2 weeks! Guess what, even if he was circumcised she would have STILL would never have seen a penis like his before…there all a little different, sweetie. Unfortunately not all men are so romantic, successful and fun!

‘It’s a Doberman! Let it have it’s ears!’

HHAHAHAHAAHHAAHHAAHAHAHAH

I feel outta my chair laughing at this…..is this didn’t know this was that big of a problem. I’m not a big fan of the foreskin either, but it hasn’t stopped me yet!!

I would say to the woman that if it bothers her THAT much, then, yeah, she needs to find another boyfriend. hehehehehehehehe

Ya know, to each their own. She doesn’t like foreskin? Fine, then she needs to find a new man sans the skin…. maybe she should include that caveat in her personals ad….

But to ask him to cut it off?? Dear, would you have your landing gear tucked for a guy you’ve barely dated? How about a boob job. Eve wasn’t too harsh on her, she needs stoning with uncircumcised peen for a week.

“should I just break it off now?”

Ouch! I know she didn’t mean this literally, but if the shoe fits…

I noticed how none of her “options” included the I’m-crazy-to-expect-such-a-thing-and-need-to-get-over-myself option.

I find it unusual that there are actually women who are still ignorant of foreskin. It is the natural form of the penis. To be circumcised is the variation.

since 95% of women are completely HORRIFIED at the sight of the forskin, I am forever grateful to my folks for hacking mine of at birth!

you were not too hard on this chicka, if the tables were turned and he said something like this, it would he HER doing some cutting on his body…

I wonder if President Elect Obama is uncircumcised. And if so, would it have made a difference to female voters. Makes you think.

I’d never been with an uncircumcised man until my husband, who is from New Zealand. Before we were ever intimate, it came up in conversation, and he was amazed that it would even cross my mind - apparently, circumcision is not quite the fad/standard in other countries that it is (was) in America. He said “I thought people only did that if they were Jewish, or if it was medically necessary.”

I was born in 1979, and my birth year, 86% of boys in America were circumcised at birth. Nowadays, it’s down below 60%. It used to be a cleanliness issue, but in these days of bathing daily, it’s not important. Plus, the man loses a lot of nerve endings and sensitivity in his nether regions! Not so bad if you had it done in infancy and don’t know the difference, but this woman’s man is an adult, and knows the difference.

Needless to say, I was nervous, and having insane thoughts like “Do I have to re-learn how to give blow jobs? Hand jobs?” The answer is no. It’s exactly the same as a snipped dick, and oftentimes thicker (woo!) In fact, when erect, the skin retracts itself and you can’t visually tell the difference anyway. Bonus for ladies - since they’re so much more sensitive, blow jobs take 1/3 of the time, and you don’t have to use as much pressure.

Long story short, I’m a convert, and this American girl won’t be snipping her little boys when the time comes. Get over it, girl! You might find you like it better.

I met my first uncircumcised penis a month ago…and thankfully I ASKED about it before we got intimate or I probably would have been terrified at the prospect of the strange and unusual that is actually NORMAL. Humm…odd little thing that ‘normal’. *giggles*. I spent about two hours reading about uncircumcised penises. And watching video on the function of the foreskin and other interesting things. I hate to go into a situation blind. I can honestly say now, after education, an up close and personal hands on inspection and some GREAT orgasms…….circ’ed or uncirc’ed doesn’t matter to me at all. It’s the man who’s operating it that matters. He’s either got it, or he don’t got it…and holy hell did this guy HAVE IT!!!

I can’t even FATHOM asking or WANTING a guy to get his foreskin ‘taken care of’ WTF kinda selfish ass person would do that?! Humm…this makes me want slap someone.

By all means, express your concern to the man in question. I’m sure he has 10 more willing applicants lined up behind you. So get to steppin sweet cheeks. Peee Essss. Email me, I’ll give you my number to send to him. *snickers*

I think Eve’s got it right on the nose. Also, I love E and Justice’s comments!

“do you have any tips for dealing with an uncircumcised penis?”

I don’t know I just found that really funny.

Something tells me Eve is not based in the US. Bravo! Sadly, women in that until-yesterday-benighted country still cut their baby sons’ genitalia to suit their own sexual preferences or those of supposed future partners. Ceasing to do that could be part of the Change that is about to occur. Yes It Can!

I can’t agree that an intact penis should be treated just the same as a cut one. It has 20,000 more nerves and needs to be handled more gently. (But they give him more control, not heart attacks.) Don’t try to get the foreskin out of the way and pretend it doesn’t exist. It’s an important erogenous zone in its own right, so use your imagination.

Well done, Justice. A site you could visit for your education is The Intactivism Pages.

The interesting thing about New Zealand, E, is that we tried circumcision, found it did no good, and gave it up. If your husband is your age, he’s a bit lucky; the rate was nearly 50% in 1979. Older men in NZ are mostly cut, younger not, and babies virtually not at all. And there haven’t been any outbreaks of all the things circumcision was supposed to be good for.

And please stop talking about “extra” skin. It’s the normal quota.

There is more to a man than whether he is circumcised or not. This broad is selfish to even think of asking him to undergo this procedure. I met a young man once that did that, he was in so much pain and the amount of stitches was ridiculous, as newborn not a big issue, but NEVER ask a grown man. I feel sorry for this man, hell, I hope she does ask and soon, so he can dump her self-center sorry ass, quick and find a woman that appreciates all him, as is.

Hmmm…

My son isn’t circumcised. I guess I loved him too much to force a barbaric act on him . Reminds me of how they do female children in Africa. I can’t imagine a penis being ugly because it was left in it’s natural form … to me that’s beautiful. I’m a big fan of penis, I can’t say I have actually seen one that’s ugly either. It’s so hard to find a good guy these days that if you drop one because his dick has it foreskin still on then you deserve every lousy fuck you’ve had and further you petty much deserve every man that treated you as a fuck and nothing more. You know what’s probably so bad about all this ? She probably needs some “enhancements” herself. Perhaps her labium are discolored or one is larger than the other ? Perhaps her inner labia is too long and appears as deflated balls . Long ones…
Pfft.

My 2 cents’ worth to Eve; I own a foreskin.

1. The USA is the only country that gladly cuts off a baby’s foreskin if the parents request it, for reasons that have nothing to do with Judaism, Islam, or African rites of passage.

2. The foreskin is tissue that envelops where a man pees and reproduces, without getting in the way. Doesn’t that remind you of your inner lips? If you agree, doesn’t the foreskin deserve the same respect as your inner lips? Human genitalia are like flowers. The foreskin is then like a flower part, and as such deserves our full respect as part of nature.

3. The foreskin facilitates masturbation for its owner and handjobs by its lover. Gently kneading the foreskin and the glans for a few minutes often results in him producing enough precum to amply lubricate intercourse. My better half says that the main role of the foreskin is to trap precum, and distribute it to where it’s most needed.

4. Foreskins are not smelly if the owner pulls it back and gives the head a cold water rinse before getting down to business. Incidentally, it is always cool to shower with a dude before making love with him. And during that shower, it is your prerogative to skin him back and wash his business end with soap and water to your heart’s content.

5. Once (4) is out of the way, giving head to an uncut guy is no problem. In fact, the greater sensitivity means that you can please him more easily more quickly.

6. If you are worried about foreskins and infections, the appropriate action is putting on a condom, not cutting the foreskin off.

7. What circumcision discards is rich in nerve endings, although this was not discovered until 15-20 years ago. Hence it is likely that the foreskin plays a major role in enhancing male sexual pleasure. Whether it also enhances female sexual pleasure during vaginal intercourse is not yet known. You are far from the only American woman to find the foreskin unsettling. But there are also women who blog that the 1-2 intact men in their past were a transformative event in their sex lives. Some of these women become foreskin fetishists.

8. The foreskin is visually striking only when the penis is flaccid, and many women who have never raised a baby boy have had very few opportunities to interact with a flaccid penis. For most intact men, erection makes the foreskin vanish. It’s a very sophisticated woman who can distinguish cut from uncut when both are erect. Hence many square American women, the sort who don’t do handjobs, take months, years, or forever to notice that their husbands are intact.

9. Never forget that sexual pleasure is not an end in itself. Its purpose is to bind you to a mate; in this sense, it is like epoxy cement for the soul. What should come first are the qualities of that mate. If he can make you come now, and get you pregnant later if you wish, that’s what matters.

I am A Man and for this I have read and studied many different things on the matter read this it’s from many studies and journals this a form of MUTILATION read….

Me Personally I would NEVER Dare think of Mutilating the one I care or LOVE, Forbidding them from pleasure and self esteem I DON’T Think So!

Female circumcision has been practiced around the world for ages, as a religious and social custom. It is still performed today in many cultures, and is prevalent in many African countries, parts of Asia and Europe, and has begun to surface in certain immigrant societies in Canada, Australia, and the United States. Often referred to as “Female Genital Mutilation” by its many opponents, it has been compared to child and spousal abuse, as well as to male circumcision, although it is a secular practice, and is not mandated by any religion. There are concerns about the detrimental effects of female circumcision on a woman’s health, especially when it is performed under unsanitary conditions and by a person other than a trained medical practitioner.
The number and degree of different types of female circumcision is often disagreed upon, but for the intents and purposes of this page, here are the three main types of female circumcision:

* “Sunna” circumcision: this consists of the removal of the tip of the clitoris, sometimes performed by cutting a hole in a piece of cloth and placing it over the area to be cut, limiting the size of the area. In certain cases the clitoris is just nicked with a knife or razor, in parts of Mexico and South America, the sign of the cross is cut into it. Sunna, in Arabic, means “tradition”.
* Clitoridectomy: sometimes referred to as excision, which involves the removal of the entire clitoris, rather than just the tip, and the labia minora; the inside lips of the vagina. The opening is left open, rather than sewn together, as in the case of infibulation.
* Infibulation: the entire clitoris is removed, as well as the inner and outer labia (minora and majora), scraping of the sides of the vulva and then joining them together and sewing them up with thread or catgut, or sometimes closing them with thorns. A small opening is left in order that urine and menstrual blood may pass through. A woman who has been infibulated must be cut open to allow sexual intercourse and childbirth, and then is re-sewn to ensure faithfulness to her husband. (Sarkis, 1998)

Lori: “newborn not a big issue” Yes it is. See this video or this one this one, from Stanford University (not a hotbed of anti-circumcision militants).