Comments on: Poor Little Homewrecker http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/ dating advice, relationships, self-help, sexuality, empowerment, men, women, love, romance Thu, 08 Jan 2009 11:48:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Sarah http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16278 Sarah Fri, 05 Sep 2008 02:12:38 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16278 This is a very valid point. I know when I was in a similar position it became about winning. Which sounds so odd, but really I was being a BRAT! He wasn't married but dated us both at the same time and dammit I was going to be the one he picked! Wow, even typing it makes it sound no less ignorant than it was. But now I know, a man that would date us both doesn't deserve either of us... But yeah, it could be a number of things... This is a very valid point. I know when I was in a similar position it became about winning. Which sounds so odd, but really I was being a BRAT! He wasn’t married but dated us both at the same time and dammit I was going to be the one he picked! Wow, even typing it makes it sound no less ignorant than it was. But now I know, a man that would date us both doesn’t deserve either of us…

But yeah, it could be a number of things…

]]> By: Karri http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16277 Karri Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:56:14 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16277 Hands down I couldn't agree with you more! The greatest relationship I ever had was one of mutual respect first and foremost. It still to this day is the gold standard! Hands down I couldn’t agree with you more! The greatest relationship I ever had was one of mutual respect first and foremost. It still to this day is the gold standard!

]]> By: Karri http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16276 Karri Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:54:20 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16276 I know, I know. But there's just something about ultra conservative holier than thou women that grate on my last nerve. And now that I've probably offended entirely too many people, I will retreat to watch the aging senior deliver his speech. I know, I know. But there’s just something about ultra conservative holier than thou women that grate on my last nerve. And now that I’ve probably offended entirely too many people, I will retreat to watch the aging senior deliver his speech.

]]> By: Kiki http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16275 Kiki Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:43:27 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16275 Jesus Camp almost made me get a hysterectomy and move to New Zealand. Jesus Camp almost made me get a hysterectomy and move to New Zealand.

]]> By: Kiki http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16274 Kiki Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:42:12 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16274 I don't think a piece of paper is ever going to be the determining factor in whether a relationship will endure. It's all about respect. If you truly respect yourself, you won't act like an asshole. If you truly respect your partner, you won't act like an asshole. Of course there's also love and communication and sex and longevity. But the deciding factor in my humble opinion is always respect. I don’t think a piece of paper is ever going to be the determining factor in whether a relationship will endure. It’s all about respect. If you truly respect yourself, you won’t act like an asshole. If you truly respect your partner, you won’t act like an asshole.

Of course there’s also love and communication and sex and longevity.

But the deciding factor in my humble opinion is always respect.

]]> By: Meghan http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16273 Meghan Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:39:05 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16273 Breathe, Karri! (I just started to, and McCain hasn't even spoken yet tonight! LOL) And yes...the fact that the fundamentalists and evangelical Christians are proud of McCain's choice - thats NOT a good thing!! They home school their children into believing Science has no answers! Ever watch the documentary 'Jesus Camp' - those fuckers are crazy! And you want to talk demented and perverted... Breathe, Karri! (I just started to, and McCain hasn’t even spoken yet tonight! LOL)

And yes…the fact that the fundamentalists and evangelical Christians are proud of McCain’s choice - thats NOT a good thing!! They home school their children into believing Science has no answers!

Ever watch the documentary ‘Jesus Camp’ - those fuckers are crazy! And you want to talk demented and perverted…

]]> By: Karri http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16272 Karri Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:38:11 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16272 Welcome to America where our cousins breed insanity! Welcome to America where our cousins breed insanity!

]]> By: Karri http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16271 Karri Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:36:04 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16271 Gotta' love the Brits! I've done it twice and although the second time was much better than the first, I can't say that I'll ever walk down the isle again. It lost it's luster somewhere between signing on the dotted line and receiving the manila envelope stamped "Dissolution of Marriage." I honestly believe people stay together for all of the right reasons when they choose not to have a legally binding commitment... but that's just me. Gotta’ love the Brits! I’ve done it twice and although the second time was much better than the first, I can’t say that I’ll ever walk down the isle again. It lost it’s luster somewhere between signing on the dotted line and receiving the manila envelope stamped “Dissolution of Marriage.”

I honestly believe people stay together for all of the right reasons when they choose not to have a legally binding commitment… but that’s just me.

]]> By: Kiki http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16270 Kiki Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:35:58 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16270 That's because they were having sex under the bleachers. Have I said my daily "I despair for the future of humanity" yet? No? Well. I do. That’s because they were having sex under the bleachers.

Have I said my daily “I despair for the future of humanity” yet?

No?

Well. I do.

]]> By: Karri http://eve-101.com/poor-little-homewrecker/comment-page-1/#comment-16268 Karri Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:32:26 +0000 http://eve-101.com/?p=1268#comment-16268 Christ! McCain already has one foot in the grave...chances are likely he'll have a freakin' coronary and we'll be stuck with mandatory Sunday school taught by unwed pregnant teenagers who missed their lessons on abstinence! Christ! McCain already has one foot in the grave…chances are likely he’ll have a freakin’ coronary and we’ll be stuck with mandatory Sunday school taught by unwed pregnant teenagers who missed their lessons on abstinence!

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