Smitten…or smashed?

Dear Eve,

For the past year I have had a crazy crush for a guy I met in college. He and I seemed to get along at first, then we argued, stopped talking to one another, and then come Christmas break he sends me “Merry Christmas” wishes and we started talking again (with lots of heavy flirting). We ended up in his room one night having a very sexy experience (never amounted to sex, but it’s what people would call “close enough”). Since then, we seem to be on a very vicious cycle of “we flirt, we make out, we fight, we stop talking, HE CALLS ME UP, repeat cycle.” I’m feeling as if I’m just some booty call for him since he said that he’s not romantically interested in me, only sexually. Should I try to stay away from him? –possibly switch colleges if I need to?

Please help,

Crazy confused

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Should her lips be sealed?

Dear Eve,

I recently started dating a really great guy, and like with any new relationship we’ve shared stories about growing up, college, our careers, etc. One night after we’d just finished making love, he asked me how many other men I’ve slept with. I was so caught off guard that I told him that wasn’t something I wanted to think about while I was with him. I thought he would let it go, but he keeps asking me and I keep avoiding the question. I don’t want to lie and make up a number, but I don’t think he needs to know about every drunken one-night-stand. Eve, help! How do I get him to move past my past?

Signed, My lips are sealed

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