You’re making me crazy!

May 20, 2008

We’ve all been there…the moment a relationship goes sour and we suddenly feel as though we’re losing our grip on reality. Our once rational and logical thought process becomes so convoluted that we’d rather be committed to the loony bin than committed to our beloved.

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Oh yeah I want to see you…but not in MY underwear!

March 26, 2008

Dear Eve,

My husband and I are in our early 30’s and our one year wedding anniversary was early this month. My husband recently confessed to me that he has been obsessed with wearing women’s lingerie since he was 8 years old. He said that he thought he could get over it, but ended up giving into temptation about a month ago and felt guilty about keeping it from me. Is this a fetish or does he have gay tendencies? He tells me that he is not sexually attracted to men and still wants to be with me, but I don’t know what to believe. He also told me that his ultimate fantasy is to dress as a woman and go out, in public. What do I do?

man in panties

Sincerely, Wants to wear the panties in the family

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De-constructive Panic

February 25, 2008

“There would be no one to frighten you if you refused to be afraid.”
-Mohandas K. Gandhi

I am claustrophobic. I am sure that to most of you that simply means that I am afraid of enclosed spaces. I wish it were that simple.

A more accurate description of my incarnation of this phobia might be the fear of not having an escape route. Anyone reading this who shares this terror with me understands this is the predominating feature; you feel an undeniable need to be able to get out…and quickly.

panic

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