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	<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 16:20:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: melissa</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9418</link>
		<dc:creator>melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 19:32:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ummmmm ... so the guy is by decided to get married now after 14 years he wants an affair ... i dont think it would really matter weather he wanted to sleep with another woman or a man.. either way i would be pissed if i was his wife ... if he wanted to be a swinger he should have picked a diffrent wife !!! He wants to cheat why does it matter with whom?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ummmmm &#8230; so the guy is by decided to get married now after 14 years he wants an affair &#8230; i dont think it would really matter weather he wanted to sleep with another woman or a man.. either way i would be pissed if i was his wife &#8230; if he wanted to be a swinger he should have picked a diffrent wife !!! He wants to cheat why does it matter with whom?</p>
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		<title>By: Pining for Penis aka Mr. Woodcock</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9380</link>
		<dc:creator>Pining for Penis aka Mr. Woodcock</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 04:47:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We have discussed it, but she is not OK with the issues involved.  Too much chance of infection around these days.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have discussed it, but she is not OK with the issues involved.  Too much chance of infection around these days.</p>
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		<title>By: Trista</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9364</link>
		<dc:creator>Trista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 18:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh man...this gives a whole new spin on the issue, my friend.  
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If you truly feel that this is an orientation issue...you have to go with what you feel. No one would expect you to stay in a sexually empty marriage. I am glad you have been honest with her...she should be somewhat prepared.  
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Have you explored the option of an open marriage?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh man&#8230;this gives a whole new spin on the issue, my friend.<br />
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If you truly feel that this is an orientation issue&#8230;you have to go with what you feel. No one would expect you to stay in a sexually empty marriage. I am glad you have been honest with her&#8230;she should be somewhat prepared.<br />
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Have you explored the option of an open marriage?</p>
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		<title>By: Pining for Penis aka Mr. Woodcock</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9325</link>
		<dc:creator>Pining for Penis aka Mr. Woodcock</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 03:44:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Finally home from work, so I get a chance to respond to the previous comments.  She does know, and we have been discussing it for our entire marriage.  The strap-on option has been used and abused, but the person who said that I am looking for the whole package was correct.  I haven't cheated, and I do not believe I will, so that is not a concern at this point.  What I do see going on is a change more toward the homosexual viewpoint than the straight viewpoint.  Given that, is it right to discuss with the missus whether or not splitting up is an option.  I do not want her to feel as though she wasn't enough, but with the change in views, I think it might appear that way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finally home from work, so I get a chance to respond to the previous comments.  She does know, and we have been discussing it for our entire marriage.  The strap-on option has been used and abused, but the person who said that I am looking for the whole package was correct.  I haven&#8217;t cheated, and I do not believe I will, so that is not a concern at this point.  What I do see going on is a change more toward the homosexual viewpoint than the straight viewpoint.  Given that, is it right to discuss with the missus whether or not splitting up is an option.  I do not want her to feel as though she wasn&#8217;t enough, but with the change in views, I think it might appear that way.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9324</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:58:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>DMTA!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DMTA!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9323</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:57:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Workin' crazy hours, doll. I been missing Eve-101 on The Stream, too. :( How... uh... hungry... are you? ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Workin&#8217; crazy hours, doll. I been missing Eve-101 on The Stream, too. <img src='http://eve-101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> How&#8230; uh&#8230; hungry&#8230; are you? <img src='http://eve-101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Trista</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9322</link>
		<dc:creator>Trista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:54:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>EXACTLY.  Damn clown cars! ::shudder::</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>EXACTLY.  Damn clown cars! ::shudder::</p>
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		<title>By: Trista</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9321</link>
		<dc:creator>Trista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That reminds me...where ya been, Laddie.  A girl gets hungry...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That reminds me&#8230;where ya been, Laddie.  A girl gets hungry&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9320</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:42:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah. I periodically strip naked and ride through town on a pure white horse to bring her chocolate... they call me Laddie Godiva. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah. I periodically strip naked and ride through town on a pure white horse to bring her chocolate&#8230; they call me Laddie Godiva. <img src='http://eve-101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/the-midlife-crisis-of-a-flannel-man-handler/#comment-9319</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:39:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Like Mini Cooopers and VW Bugs... they're not &lt;I&gt;real&lt;/I&gt; cars, either. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like Mini Cooopers and VW Bugs&#8230; they&#8217;re not <i>real</i> cars, either. <img src='http://eve-101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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