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	<title>Comments on: Undoing the bible belt or chided by chastity?</title>
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		<title>By: Trista</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11563</link>
		<dc:creator>Trista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 19:42:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the subject of an entire blog...for sure!  I promise to get back to it, Missy-miss!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the subject of an entire blog&#8230;for sure!  I promise to get back to it, Missy-miss!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11271</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 16:37:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL! Good one, T! =)</description>
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		<title>By: Ty</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11093</link>
		<dc:creator>Ty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 11:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm sure there are ways to not sound like an over-barring schoolmarm.  But also, sometimes it's the only way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sure there are ways to not sound like an over-barring schoolmarm.  But also, sometimes it&#8217;s the only way.</p>
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		<title>By: Prophet</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11084</link>
		<dc:creator>Prophet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 08:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I had a religion we would all just persecute ourselves... I would call it Judaism 2.0 . Or, Ju-2-daism wif we're proselytizing to the whipper-snappers</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I had a religion we would all just persecute ourselves&#8230; I would call it Judaism 2.0 . Or, Ju-2-daism wif we&#8217;re proselytizing to the whipper-snappers</p>
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		<title>By: Missygail</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11081</link>
		<dc:creator>Missygail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 03:57:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My friend who's Christian argues the fact that what you don't know you won't miss. She says that if a person stayed a virgin until marriage they wouldn't be aware they were having bad sex.
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She was a virgin for her first marriage, though I claim she *cheated* because she was only 17 when she got married. She thought their sex life was fine. The divorce was more over him being abusive than the sex life.... though she did have an affair in there with a man who still was the best sex in her life. She divorced one and married another within months. 
. 
Though her second marriage is still going and my first is not and we got married at the same time... 
. 
Anyways, I fully believe in trying out the goods. I was only 18 when I got married. I did have other partners before him and I did try out the goods, but WTF do you know when you're 18? After a few years and one child I did realize that our sex life wasn't that great. 
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I ended up discussing with my sister about how bad our sex life truly was... my ex (who was supposed to be sleeping) overheard all of this discussion. He then went on a mission to improve our sex life. 
. 
I was not capable then to tell my husband that our sex sucked (In a bad way). If he hadn't overheard my conversation I would've had to endure four more years of bad sex. He did however improve and we had wonderful sex... but I still divorced him. *grinz*
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Now my question, is how do you tell a lover that he's just doing it all wrong? How do you give instructions to someone without sounding like an over-barring schoolmarm?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My friend who&#8217;s Christian argues the fact that what you don&#8217;t know you won&#8217;t miss. She says that if a person stayed a virgin until marriage they wouldn&#8217;t be aware they were having bad sex.<br />
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She was a virgin for her first marriage, though I claim she *cheated* because she was only 17 when she got married. She thought their sex life was fine. The divorce was more over him being abusive than the sex life&#8230;. though she did have an affair in there with a man who still was the best sex in her life. She divorced one and married another within months.<br />
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Though her second marriage is still going and my first is not and we got married at the same time&#8230;<br />
.<br />
Anyways, I fully believe in trying out the goods. I was only 18 when I got married. I did have other partners before him and I did try out the goods, but WTF do you know when you&#8217;re 18? After a few years and one child I did realize that our sex life wasn&#8217;t that great.<br />
.<br />
I ended up discussing with my sister about how bad our sex life truly was&#8230; my ex (who was supposed to be sleeping) overheard all of this discussion. He then went on a mission to improve our sex life.<br />
.<br />
I was not capable then to tell my husband that our sex sucked (In a bad way). If he hadn&#8217;t overheard my conversation I would&#8217;ve had to endure four more years of bad sex. He did however improve and we had wonderful sex&#8230; but I still divorced him. *grinz*<br />
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Now my question, is how do you tell a lover that he&#8217;s just doing it all wrong? How do you give instructions to someone without sounding like an over-barring schoolmarm?</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11080</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 03:34:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I clicked the link again.  Kinda like a car wreck.  I almost hurled some.  

Yeah, that is the worst of it here.  I mean, that is bad, and I have a SEVERE FEAR of them, but it doesn't get much worse.  Unless you don't like snakes...

Oh nevermind, I have never been out West.  Let's just hope I don't have any stowaways.

;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I clicked the link again.  Kinda like a car wreck.  I almost hurled some.  </p>
<p>Yeah, that is the worst of it here.  I mean, that is bad, and I have a SEVERE FEAR of them, but it doesn&#8217;t get much worse.  Unless you don&#8217;t like snakes&#8230;</p>
<p>Oh nevermind, I have never been out West.  Let&#8217;s just hope I don&#8217;t have any stowaways.</p>
<p> <img src='http://eve-101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Trista</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11078</link>
		<dc:creator>Trista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:52:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Orgasm by Kegels alone...nope.  


Maybe I should up my routine...jeez.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Orgasm by Kegels alone&#8230;nope.  </p>
<p>Maybe I should up my routine&#8230;jeez.</p>
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		<title>By: Trista</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11077</link>
		<dc:creator>Trista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:49:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh.       


My.


Gawd.

I did want to come see you two...but now...I'm think y'all need to come to us.  

ugh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh.       </p>
<p>My.</p>
<p>Gawd.</p>
<p>I did want to come see you two&#8230;but now&#8230;I&#8217;m think y&#8217;all need to come to us.  </p>
<p>ugh.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11076</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://www.bluechameleon.org/Forum%20Pics%202008/Palmetto%20bug.jpg

That was really painful to even look up...</description>
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<p>That was really painful to even look up&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://eve-101.com/undoingthebiblebelt/comment-page-1/#comment-11075</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A HUGE BLACK FLYING ROACH.  
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Measures about 4 inches long, and you can hear them walking on surfaces they are so large.  They are aggressive and when attacked they will dive bomb.
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Have found 2 in my room, and there aren't enough xanax in the world to make that go away.
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*SHUDDER*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A HUGE BLACK FLYING ROACH.<br />
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Measures about 4 inches long, and you can hear them walking on surfaces they are so large.  They are aggressive and when attacked they will dive bomb.<br />
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Have found 2 in my room, and there aren&#8217;t enough xanax in the world to make that go away.<br />
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*SHUDDER*</p>
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